
This is my genealogical journey. I started as a rank amateur and have become a well-seasoned, but still amateur, genealogist through the years. I'll share techniques that I’ve learned through trial and error, publish excerpts from old letters and journals and show you photographs and documents that relate to my history, and maybe yours. But mostly I’ll tell stories that engaged and entertained me, educated me and that made me a more meticulous and detailed family history researcher.
12 September 2017
Hiatus
August and September break as I start a new job - will be back in October with a post about my methods of organizing documents, photos, electronic files and everything else that we all seem to accumulate in our family history search!
10 August 2017
Will the Real Matthew Woodruff Please Stand Up? (part 2 of 2)
Part 1 left us with the interesting coincidence of my consultations with the Society of Genealogists in London about the origins of Matthew Woodruff, my immigrant Woodruff ancestor, being immediately followed by outreach from a distant cousin, Leonard Lee Woodruff, who had further information to provide about Matthew.
I found it fascinating that Leonard emailed for the first time, after finding our DNA match, to ask if I had any information on the very topic I’d addressed the prior day! After I shared my information with him, he sent me copies of what he had, which added to my own knowledge. The documents he sent me in October 2011 included the results of three separate research projects that he had commissioned. He later copied me on the results of a fourth project in January 2012.
What more was I going to learn about our immigrant ancestor, Matthew Woodruff of Farmington, Connecticut?
I found it fascinating that Leonard emailed for the first time, after finding our DNA match, to ask if I had any information on the very topic I’d addressed the prior day! After I shared my information with him, he sent me copies of what he had, which added to my own knowledge. The documents he sent me in October 2011 included the results of three separate research projects that he had commissioned. He later copied me on the results of a fourth project in January 2012.
What more was I going to learn about our immigrant ancestor, Matthew Woodruff of Farmington, Connecticut?
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Map of Colonial Farmington, CT with Matthew Woodruff's house called out (See previous Blog entry for attribution) |
29 July 2017
Will the Real Matthew Woodruff Please Stand Up? (part 1 of 2)
There has been much speculation about the origin of Matthew Woodruff of Farmington, Connecticut, my Woodruff immigrant ancestor. Although no solid proof has been found, there is strength in the circumstantial evidence that points to his origins in Cambridge, England.
Legend has it (by way of several published genealogies which have translated to many, many online family trees) that Matthew and his wife Hannah were in Boston circa 1639 and then in Farmington by 1640 or 1641. There is no evidence to back this up. In fact, there is no mention of Matthew Woodruff in the exhaustive Great Migration project, which provides comprehensive sketches on all New England immigrants from 1620 through 1635 and a comprehensive index of all New England immigrants from 1636 through 1640. [i]
In her 1963 Woodruff Genealogy, Susan Woodruff Abbott states “Although it has been said that [Matthew] came from Hartford to Farmington in 1640-41, written evidence seems to be entirely lacking.” [ii]
Legend has it (by way of several published genealogies which have translated to many, many online family trees) that Matthew and his wife Hannah were in Boston circa 1639 and then in Farmington by 1640 or 1641. There is no evidence to back this up. In fact, there is no mention of Matthew Woodruff in the exhaustive Great Migration project, which provides comprehensive sketches on all New England immigrants from 1620 through 1635 and a comprehensive index of all New England immigrants from 1636 through 1640. [i]
In her 1963 Woodruff Genealogy, Susan Woodruff Abbott states “Although it has been said that [Matthew] came from Hartford to Farmington in 1640-41, written evidence seems to be entirely lacking.” [ii]
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From Susan Woodruff Abbott's book. |
22 June 2017
Unconventional Great Grandparents (part 2 of 2)
This is a continuation of my discussion about the perception that those who came before us led more rigid and strictly “conventional” lives. My great-grandparents, as detailed in the previous posting, were all born during America’s Gilded Era, when Victorian principles were adopted and family life was conventional and predicable. At least that is our perception of the time – in reality, life presented challenges and complications to the people of that era, just as is does with us today. All four sets of my great grandparents experienced some unconventional aspect of their lives. In my previous post I addressed my paternal great grandparents, one set divorced and the other set estranged.
In this post, I address my two sets of maternal great-grandparents. For one couple, and like one set of my paternal great-grandparents, there was a long-term separation. And for one great-grandfather, the story is one of tragedy compounded with further estrangement and manipulation, really a very sad reflection on the key players of a 100-year-old misfortune that still has an impact on his descendants today.
24 May 2017
Unconventional Great Grandparents (part 1 of 2)
My four sets of great-grandparents were of an interesting era: all eight of these individuals were born during America’s Gilded / Industrial Ages, with their collective birth years ranging from 1878 through 1886, an eight year span. Their families represented a fascinating range of backgrounds, including industry, finance, law and medicine. One great-grandfather grew up as the son of a minister. They were all influenced by their times and circumstance, which mirrored the Victorian era in England and the Belle Époche in France. These were special times and today we tend to think of the people of this era as rigid, tied to strict mores and more likely to live strictly conventional lives. Divorce and separation were seemingly unheard of.
Interestingly, this perception does not apply to any of my great-grandparents. The lives of each of these four couples factored in some unusual non-conventional family component. The causes of their circumstances vary, but they all had a non-traditional aspect to their lives.
Today’s post will address my two sets of paternal great-grandparents. Part two will discuss how my maternal great-grandparents failed to conform to the perceptions of the norms for their era.
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My great-grandparents, Sidney Bunting and Aileen Smith with their wedding party in Montreal in 1910 |
21 April 2017
Dual-year dates and other calendar anomalies explained
When I first started my family history research,
I quickly ran into some older date notations I didn’t understand. They were listed as two years instead of one. For example, I would see a birth listed as 21
January 1680/1. I had no clue what that
meant, and no one to ask.
I did, however, have the Internet and I assumed
that I would only be one of many amateurs who were confused by this, so I
looked at Ancestry.com, at the New England Historic Genealogical Society
website (AmericanAncestors.com) and other genealogy sites, thinking this would
surely be addressed in their FAQ section or on some “basics of research”
page. I was wrong – I could not find any
such explanation anywhere.
One depiction of a multi-year date from a Robert Hicks sketch. |
Another depiction from a William Mann sketch. |
09 April 2017
Correcting the Tree!
The fascinating blog of the NEHGS, vita-brevis.org |
Vita Brevis (the blog of the New England Historic and
Genealogical Society, located at vita-brevis.org) has recently posted a number
of fascinating articles about the correction of family trees – information that’s
been accepted as correct, sometimes for many generations, that proves to be
incorrect under further scrutiny. I don’t
know how common this is, but I expect it’s pretty prevalent. In my own case, the act of putting my
genealogy under the microscope resulted in multiple changes to the accepted “common
wisdom”. There were various reasons for
these changes – willful misdirection, confusing records and accepted published
histories that are changed due to scholarly review are all causes of changes to
my own published genealogy. I’ll start
with the most compelling of these
circumstances: willful misdirection!
26 March 2017
How I Make Use of Internet Information
I’ve written before about my cousin John Black, who died at
the age of 90 in 2014. As the
family historian of his branch of the family, he was part of my inspiration to
pursue my own family history. I
did, however, adapt his advice to accommodate current technology and Internet
resources. Sometime around 2005, I had a conversation with him about
information I had found searching the web. He said “you can’t trust anything
from the Internet!” To say that he was “old school” would be a tremendous
understatement! In his 80s, he was
not an Internet user (he sent letters to me by postal mail, typed on a manual
typewriter), but he had certainly heard stories from other genealogists about
the danger of taking data from Internet sources. He had valid reasons for his
distrust of the Internet, but that was just part of the story.
The Internet can be a source of good information as well as
bad. As with any type of research,
data found from something other than the original source should always be
verified. For me, I consider
“original source” to be a somewhat fluid thing: reproductions of original
documents work for me, as well as transcriptions or abstracts from trusted
sources. Published research (private or public) conducted by genealogists and
researchers of good reputation is also considered solid. But a lineage taken from an online
family history service or private website should be taken with a grain of
salt. I have developed the
following process to validate the data I find online.
08 March 2017
The Unknown Relation (part 2 of 2)
(Continued from March 1, 2017)
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Althea Chase Rowland Woodruff circa 1947 with 11 grandchildren! |
In 2006 I received the last big batch of general family
documents from my mother’s side of the family. I added them to the filing cabinet which already contained
my father’s family papers (inherited from him in 1992 and added to by other
family members over the years).
The combined batch of documents filled more than six lateral file
drawers and were not organized or protected in any way.
As I have mentioned in past posts, I am slowly making
headway through the family papers in my possession. The was the case, too, in 2010. It was to these papers that I turned to try to solve the
mystery of the woman I met in 1985 on the day of my graduation from college
(see part one of this post). I had
made some small headway, at that point, in getting through the crowded file
drawers (this is how I had previously come upon Althea’s wonderful photograph
in the first place), but now I went back to these papers to see what I could
find of Althea’s children.
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The Rowland Descent, updated in 1999 |
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01 March 2017
The Unknown Relation (part 1 of 2)
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Althea Chase Rowland Woodruff "Woody" with 11 of her grandchildren circa 1947 |
My great-grandfather, Edward Gould Rowland (b. 1878), had two younger sisters, Althea Chase Rowland (b. 1880) and Eleanor Harris Rowland (b. 1882). In 1904, Althea married Clarence Merle Woodruff and they settled in Akron, OH. Widowed in Akron in 1922, she raised her children there and then later moved to Santa Barbara in the 1940s to be closer to her adult children and her sister in Los Angeles. In 1947, she sent this photograph from southern California: Althea Woodruff and all but one of her grandchildren (the 12th had not yet been born). She sent the photo to her niece, Barbara Rowland Dirlam (my grandmother) to introduce Barbara’s young daughter Hilary (my mother) to all of her Los Angeles cousins.
21 February 2017
Lifelong Influence of World War II Deployment
My maternal grandfather, Joel Baxter Dirlam, was an
economist who consulted and was a university professor throughout his
career. He obtained his
undergraduate degree from Yale University in 1936, graduating Phi Beta Kappa,
and earned his doctorate in economics from Yale in 1947. The delay in his PhD was due, in part, to a move he made to
New York City where his social life revolved around musician and artist
friends. In New York he also met
and married (in 1941) my grandmother, Barbara Burdick Rowland. The young couple moved about as he
worked to support them and to complete his degree. Eventually my mother, their oldest child, was born in 1943,
as Joel worked on research with his best friend and fellow doctoral candidate,
Alfred Kahn (who, many years later, would become semi-famous for de-regulating
the airline industry under President Jimmy Carter) and getting his thesis in
order. He was then further delayed
by world events.
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Fred Kahn and Joel Dirlam in 1938 working on their dissertations |
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Front of Discharge Certificate |
05 February 2017
Where to Begin? At Home!
The television ads make it seem easy: enter your name and
information, then that of your parents and grandparents. By then you’ll have found a link to
someone else’s family tree to which you can connect and have your genealogy laid
out in front of you! That can
happen to a limited extent, but generally there’s a whole lot more work
involved. The family tree service
provided by Ancestry.com is invaluable and it is definitely one important early
step in getting your history organized.
But it’s not the first step.
To begin properly, you need to start at home.
There are sources of family history and genealogical
information all around us, but we don’t necessarily recognize or make use of
these resources. As a quick
reminder, I define “family history” as the family narrative (anecdotes, legends
and stories) and “genealogy” as my lineage (who descends from whom).
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John Baxter Black II in 2007 |
John's two volume book: A History of The Family of Frank Blymyer Black |
25 January 2017
The Life of an Aspiring Young Actress - New York in the 1930s
From its founding in 1902 to around 1952, the Three Arts
Club in New York City served a noble purpose – to house young women who were
pursuing careers in the arts.
The three arts referred to music, art and drama, and the Club provided dormitory
style housing, meals and an environment in which these young women would be
among people experiencing the same struggles and frustrations (and sometimes
success).
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The Three Arts Club at 340 W 85th St, NYC in 1910. This building was replaced in 1927. |
According to an article about the Three Arts published in
the Los Angeles Herald newspaper in 1909, there were four rules of admission
(quoted):
- All applicants must be studying with a view toward self support or working in one of the arts.
- They must be under 30 years of age.
- They must furnish at least two satisfactory references.
- Admittance only by application card.[i]
17 January 2017
Getting Started and Getting Organized

Tamala asked the question of me, in particular, because she
knew that all of our grandparents’ papers, particularly family history
information, had been entrusted to me. This seemingly innocuous question forced me to face a closet
full of boxes which were not just from those two grandparents, but from my father’s
side of the family as well.
05 January 2017
The Story of Annie Allender Gould
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Empress Dowager Cixi whose Decree caused such bloodshed |
The Boxer Rebellion was a violent movement in China which
targeted Christians, missionaries in particular, between 1899 and 1901. It was initially a nationalist group (“Boxer”
was the English translation for the name of this group) that pushed for
expulsion of foreigners and their interests and eventually grew into a much
larger movement.
When the Boxers finally blockaded the Legation Quarter of Beijing,
which housed many foreigner delegations and missions, the Empress Dowager Cixi
(believing that armed invasion to lift the siege was immanent) weighed in and
supported the Boxers through an Imperial Decree “declaring war on foreign
powers”. This led to the killing
of many foreigners and significantly more native-born Christian converts in
China, mostly in the northern provinces near Beijing.
According to Wikipedia, a total of 136 Protestant
missionaries, 47 Catholic nuns and priests, 53 foreign children and thousands
of convert Chinese citizens were killed during the rebellion. In all, between 2,400 and 2,600 people
were killed after Empress Dowager made her proclamation supporting the Boxers.[i]
Annie Allender Gould was my great-grandfather’s first cousin
and was, therefore, my first cousin three times removed. She was also a Presbyterian missionary
in China and one of the 136 Protestant missionaries killed by the Boxers.
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